Is Your Online Date Who He Really Says He Is?

When it comes to the world of online dating, many people (women especially) need to proceed with caution.

Now, this doesn’t mean that online dating is rife with traps, bad people, perhaps even criminals.

It does mean, however, that one should not assume that everyone they meet online is on the up-and-up.

For instance, how do you truly know that the person you might have some interest in is even that person to begin with?

As too many people have discovered since the first days of online dating more than a decade ago, what you perceive and what ends up being reality are oftentimes two entirely different things.

With that in mind, you are better off taking online dating in baby steps instead of jumping right into a relationship with someone you’ve just started chatting with over the Internet.

When all is said and done, while you certainly want to meet someone of high quality, you also want to make sure you are doing everything possible to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Proceed with Some Caution

So that you do your best to ensure safety at all times in the world of online dating, remember a couple of important pointers:

  1. Are They Truly Who They Say They Are?

First and foremost, do all you can to verify that the person you are talking to (and possibly going out on a date with) is in fact who they say they are to begin with.

If you end up getting scammed on an online date, you certainly would not be the first individual to fall for such a ruse (probably not the last one either). That said getting scammed and having your overall safety being put in jeopardy are two entirely different things.

With that in mind, you can opt to proceed with a free online criminal records check, something that is easier to do than you might first think.

Such a check can be done in rather short time, allowing you to investigate if the person you’re talking to (and possibly going out on a date with etc.) is not someone you should be worried about. Remember, your physical safety is always of the utmost importance when dating.

Also, a records check oftentimes allows you to peer into factors such as any crimes one was arrested for, their sentencing records, and if they are repeat offenders etc.

In the end, the time spent online doing such a check can be the difference between being safe and being in danger with someone you meet (see more below).

  1. Meet in a Safe Environment

If in fact you end up feeling like the person you are talking to is who they say they are, along with being someone you’d feel safe meeting with, the next step is of course the date.

For both women and men, it is always best to meet in a public setting, thereby reducing the risk of something going wrong, something much more dangerous than if two people don’t end up finding a spark.

Although you might be a woman who likes to be romanced and treated like a princess, don’t fall for that trap early on.

Avoid doing the following until you truly get to know someone:

  • Giving out your home address
  • Providing details of where you work
  • Providing information about where your immediate family lives
  • Talking about any personal financial matters (where you bank, if you have retirement accounts with specific companies etc.)

Even though you might sound somewhat coy or even shy, being safe is always the better option.

If you’ve been thinking about trying online dating, it can definitely prove to be the solution some women were searching for in meeting that right guy.

That said always proceed with caution, avoiding putting you and those close to you in a dangerous position.